Thanks Nicole and Jim on how you would handle small talk situations. Summer is here and tons of opportunities to do stuff outside and lots of festivals, which we used to go to. I am going to go by myself this year and bring the kids. I've decided that I am not going to initiate hanging out with her.
If she does, we'll see. The best way to deal with that situation I see is to treat her like an acquaintance. But, I dunno. Part of me also feels that she doesn't deserve my time after all she's done.
I'll cross the bridge if it comes. I am not worried about it. It's all theoretical and I am not waiting for any invites either.
She told me that she would never bring up the MR issues to talk about a little bit after BD. So be it. I've figured out what I need from a partner and a romantic relationship. Meekness is definitely not one thing that I find cute. And the hard work on her part, I need to see that. I need to see her seek me out. I am not going to make this easy on her.
Anyways, so theoretical and very unlikely this would happen. But I like to think things through and be prepared lol.
