Sounds to me like your subconscious is telling you that the W is trying to hurt you and you have been waiting and tolerating it. Probably because you have hurt her. Just My Two Cents.
Logic would say that you might consider how you may have hurt her. What you might do with this info is another subject.
For the record, I don't believe that dreams indicate what the other person might be wanting to do.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
