If I remember correctly reading older threads when I was going through my stuff was that some folks had real resentment and anger towards their W for having OM. That resentment is understandable but it seems to delay/make impossible any reconciliation.
This is exactly why I am going to presume my Ws EA is over until I find out otherwise, and not let my resentment delay or prevent any possible R. There will be plenty of time to work through the repercussions of the EA, without me having to bring everything up the second she decides to discuss our MR.
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!
