There is not one person who has called or even implied that you are an idiot.
I understand these are sensitive times, but are you seeing how you assume the worst, take out of context what people are saying to you? You take everything personally and have knee jerk reactions like you are leaving, peace out, I don't need this.....
Is this how you normally are? Is this something you can work on? Maybe listening to the message more than reacting?
I can tell you, no one takes their time out of their day to taunt you. People come here and take the time out of their day for free to HELP, ot pay it FORWARD. Not to taunt or name call.
Sandi was being quite factual. It didn't last long. She was giving you perspective and being the rubber band on your wrist to keep you on track with what you had said minutes earlier. She was doing something nice for you.
Like I said, I understand these are times of high emotions. But you are a reacter. I think we were all reactors. Take the time to really absorb what is being said before jumping to conclusions about posters intentions.
Like I said, try to look a little inward and see if this is a regular behavior, maybe something you can work on to improve interactions in all walks of life. A big part of Dbing is looking inward, working on what we can, so we can handle tough situations better.
I was a reactor, always on the defense. I had to be that way because my exH was always attacking. It became a habit, and not who I was. I stop, analyze the situation, and people's true intentions towards me and the situation. I can tell you, on here, people are saying things to help you. Intentions very important. And knowing intentions can change how you perceive things.
