It's a dice roll and ultimately your call...and you are already having concerns about her spending. I gave my wife money because I did not want her to stay just because of money. That was controlling to me....

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018