So when I date a man, I don't want to date someone who seems on the fence, or frequently has doubts about his feelings or our R.
I want, and now require a man who says "F- YES!" when asked if he and I ought to spend time together. Not forcing a marriage, by any means.
Hear, hear! This was, actually, what drew me to crazy exBF - he seemed, at least, to be enthusiastic about me. And it was nice basking in that, although now I can see the crazy that went with it. Still, despite his lies and craziness, I'm pretty sure that part was genuine - and why shouldn't it be? Even the unavailable guys I dated ALL thought I was fantastic. Very life-affirming after my exH's negativity.
Definitely not settling for anybody in the future who doesn't think I'm grand just as I am.
