The card is hers. She has stopped spending on our joint cards. (of course all the bills of our house where she lives are paid on the joint cards).
But the payment comes off out of our joint checking account.
I think I am probably going to let it lie for now. It seems really excessive to me, but maybe she is buying tickets to go home and visit family again. I just don't know.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019