Today has been ok but a couple of things are getting me down.
I seem to have hurt my wrist climbing on Sunday and have some residual thumb numbness and wrist pain - afraid it might be carpal tunnel. Not being able to climb for an extended time would put a crimp in my goals and my GAL.
Also, I checked the shared bank account today and the W spent another 1,200 on her credit card this month - 3,000 in the last 3 months. That is certainly not obscene, but I have no clue what she is spending it on - I guess its none of my business, but it is our shared money. My impulse is to ask her about it since she makes less than 2 grand a month, this kind of spending is not sustainable once she gets her own place. But, I also recognize that this impulse comes from a) my own frugality and b) residual desire to control her behavior. I feel like asking her about it would just feel like more control to her and push her further away. Again, she is not acting crazy at all, and this is hardly a spending spree at Tiffanys.
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W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
