I can tell you from personal experience, languishing around the house and hoping for nuggets of hope wont help. You know shes having the A. It needs to be addressed, shes getting more complacent day by day. Learn from my mistakes.

I suspected A for a while, and when i sacked up and confronted her about it i bought each lie she fed me, she will lie when confronted.
I begged, pleaded and tried to do MC and so on.
its all wasted breath. you need to assert yourself, be calm, cool, and collected but firm and solid.

SLEEP IN YOUR OWN DMAN BED. that is BS, she is the one cheating, she can leave.

She is abusing you dude. straight up emotional abuse. Dont stand for it. I can tell you it hurts. I am still hurting A LOT. It sux, but its time to either submit to a lifetime of abuse and being a provider cuck or its time to man up, take charge of your family and protect S4.

Read my Sitch man, i screwed up several times, i still screw up now. I give better advice than i consider for myself.

Being Mr Nice Guy will get you nothing but pain


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds