Okay I replied to her as I indicated above. She came back with "I hope you're having a good day, I didn't mean to bring you down. It just made me think of him."
Then she followed that up with "You never told me, how was the concert?"

I wasn't ready for that one as I figured the concert was old news now. Maybe she is curious who I went with after all.

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14