Can I really do this #2

[Dtrmned]

Thanks Steve! I avoid (or do my best as I make mistakes) initiating any talk of our R.

Funny you mention the fun word. It is one thing I told my W several months ago that ALL (kids included) of us just need to have some fun and enjoy life.

Question on that. If we are supposed to have fun, and I would love that. How do I approach her to do something together without it seeming like pursuit? Do I say something like "I'm going to go and see this movie, would you like to join me?" or "I think we both need to get out without the kids, let's go to dinner." Just looking for thoughts and ideas.

So desperately need fun!!!! It would be magnificent to see her and I relaxed, out and laughing together.

Still db'ing, Steve, you just gave me a moment to reflect.