STH you are extending your pain. Take back your bed. put her stuff out on the porch. change the locks. Stand your ground and be Alpha. Its time to let the cat out of the bag, all you are doing is allowing the cycle of abuse to endure.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds