Davide, see at least you have gotten some words of feeling from your W regarding your ring. My W is so closed off emotionally...her exterior personality is that of a rough, tough, nothing bothers me, I can't be hurt...instead of showing me a vulnerable, emotional woman. IC says she is unable for some reason to be vulnerable enough to open up, likely a former bad R, which means unless/until she can, there's no chance for us to even talk about the MR in any way.
Pain/Wlf thank you both...Pain yes me thinking of putting it back on is like "I will stand for my M until she ends it" but I do as well fear that my wearing it will/would be seen as needy, almost passive/aggressive pursuit. If I were to put it back on now after having had it off for a period of time, no idea what/how that might make her feel. Not like it matters anyway, but I am conflicted having it off right now. Like ACC would say that's because the "new normal" has me feeling out of control and by putting it back on, I might believe a sense of normalcy would return.
