Another quick update. Gave my W a hug goodbye after a great morning of interacting getting ready for work. Hugged her for about 5 seconds and went to pull away. She wouldn't let me, and kept the hug going for several seconds more.

To go from not even wanting to hug me a few months ago to this amazes me. For posters that are just now in their sitches, and don't have much hope, just put the work in. It took several weeks of my changes before my W believed them. Even now she will test the changes to see if I have really changed. CONSISTENCY is the key. When you 180 NEVER 180 back the other way again. One mistake can destroy weeks of hard week, so strive to be diligent in 180ing.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018