It's totally okay to use this as a space to vent. I certainly do that from time to time as well.
Did you read the Benito thread? That was written after the fact, but it sounds like he and his wife had about 4 months of NC as well. I certainly read stories like that in the wise-heads thread as well. I definitely dont think there is a lack of precedent there.
When I left the house I left my wedding ring on the dresser. My wife later told me that she put it away because it hurt too much to keep looking at it, so at this point I dont even know where it is. I would probably wear it at this point, but I am not about to ask her where it is. I get the ambivalence and confusion there.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
