Davide while my wife has never said she wants to D, she is in countdown to one year so she can file. We have had text/email during that time but none have been regarding our MR in quite some time. Main point is I do not thing I will get more than a year before she files and we are done. For her to not want to talk at all or work with me to try and save our M boggles my mind. I could not at least try before filing for D. The regret, guilt would drive me crazy especially as we have a young D.
Understand that I post a lot to use this as a vent with friends to listen. I have been in the gym since day one, I have been going out with friends, spending time with my folks and hoping to plan a trip by myself here shortly. Oh and of course spending as much time as I can with my D. So I feel my GAL is going well. Heck my W thinks I am dating when I am definitely not.
Not many patterns between the two. I will say I was a sports watching guy and so I do blame myself for not spending more relax time with W but we took many great vacations together and I was far from a sports junkie. My IC says I could not have foreseen the impact our D would have on my W. Trust me I want to blame this whole thing on me being a crappy husband but nobody buys it. W left, will not talk and best I know may only be relying on herself for support.
Trust me if only my W would not make huge rash decisions based on emotions.
