Has this kind of thing ever happened to anyone else?
Jlh, when you start detaching well, the WAS will often act in unusual ways. They'll try to out detach you. Or they'll get angry. Or they'll keep temp checking: "what's wrong?"
So yes this is normal. Keep detaching. Eventually his curiosity and he'll wonder what is going on with you. It isn't unusual for the WAS to react to detachment by assuming you met someone else. This is the usual accusation. Be prepared for anger at some point, most WASs hate losing power over the LBS.
Hey Steve85, could it be considered detachment on his part when H talks recently about moving all the utilities to my name, and he'll give me money for everything to pay them? He just suddenly started pushing this about how I can take care of it all and he'll make sure I had money but he wants to go very slow so I'm not overwhelmed. Then I wont hear from him about it for a while.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
