Originally Posted By: Joseph9

I firmly believe it won't happen until it is no longer on your radar to happen and by then you won't even think twice when it happens.

Agree 100%, that seems to be how it goes.


Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I think the general thought is "yes", at some point in time the LBS will have a shot but like I said you can't just put your life on hold waiting for it to happen.

If the stars and moons align and each of you are in the same place then it's possible


Exactly. I plan on having focused on myself for some time then, and if she did come back it would have to be with the list of pre-requisites i mentioned in reply to Sandi earlier.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds