Well. tonight i am going to my grandparents house to talk to them about helping me get a lawyer. I really had hoped it wouldn't come to this, but between me messing up my paperwork, the fact that she inst reporting her tips on her paperwork, I still suspect she has another apartment possibly out of state, just not in her name, probably OM's or FIL's name on the apartment, but S3 talks about going there still, and if its out of state that's SO illegal. (the WHOLE time we were together she always kept her moms address as her "mailing address" for everything and only listed our houses/apartments as her residence on her drivers license, otherwise as far as all her CC's and whatnot are concerned shes always been at her moms......fishy)
Plus her dads........history, needs to be handled by a professional.
Lastly i need real legal clarification on all of the Child Support / Day care stuff.

I didn't want the divorce to get contentious, Hell, didn't ever want the divorce, but this is the path she has set us on with the Affair and TRO.

time for hardball i guess.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds