O - IDK, she seems like the same person to me. Outside of having her own place and space I don't really see a change in her. She is definitely not as excited and angry as she was last summer. I don't get the impression that she is hanging around the same crowd of friends any more either (the ones she used as enablers last summer). IMO she doesn't seem any different than before she moved out. If there is OM he has not poked his head out of the ground yet nor has she introduced him to our kids.

If she ever has a change of heart unfortunately it will happen after I have moved on and am happy in another R.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018