Originally Posted By: doodler
Originally Posted By: Jlh
I'm sorry Doodler, I didn't see your question earlier.


Jlh,

No problem!

Ultimately, I guess it doesn't really matter too much if he's actively in an affair, or if it's just MLC. The point I wanted to make is that any time there's a third party in a marriage, then the marriage relationship is disrupted and a lot of weirdness on the part of the cheating spouse seems to arise. But, I certainly don't know how to discern between MLC and just plain-old affair behavior.

Given that he's changing his phone number, it sounds like something is amiss so he's probably currently having an affair of some sort.



Yeah, I honestly don't know if he's still talking to his EA woman anymore, I assumed that he was trying to ditch her finally when he gave me this huge detailed reason why he was getting rid of his old line and getting a completely new one. I just don't know and I try to focus on my kiddo.


Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019