She has been consistent in expressing a desire to get divorced. I don't want to get divorced, but absent any indications she wants to reconcile, accept that it's time to move on. But she just won't do anything to move it forward unless I push her.
Hi Jim, would giving her an ultimatum get you to a better place? I read somewhere you should give a WAS at least as many months as the number of years that you have been together. Giving her a strict ultimatum might make it clear to her that you are truly detached and are not ready to be in limbo anymore.
And about the value of her house, would you be able to get an appraisal on it and share the costs with her? or have her get an appraisal and set up a deadline for it. This would be more beneficial to you than her under quoting the value of the house.
