Yes...you have to stop. From my perspective they are done with the LBS and any value they have for the LBS is purely used for what benefits them.
Are you referring to my "Cycle" layout? that particular layout was specific to her, which i find interesting. If her EX (Guy #1) had ever shown interest, i think i would have been dropped instantly. So, that is why i have thought that once Limerence with OM fades, and i am with someone else (in other words "something she cant have") is when i will potentially be in the same position her EX was when she was with me, and after Guy #2.
Could happen, maybe not. i know by the time her EX realized this he was 100% done with anything having to do with her, and I will likely be in the same spot if and when that happens.
That is my goal. Healthy apathy.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
