Moving on (Saying ILY pt. 5)

[mtb1981]

W sent a text wanting to come by to get the birth certificates. She claims she needs them to keep the kids insurance. I'm pretty sure this is a lie. They were all just issued new cards that became effective April 2018. Last time she mentioned the birth certificates, she said she needed them to apply for public housing. Not sure what's going on exactly. I'm wondering if she's going to apply for legal assistance and needs proof of having children...

[SteveLW]

Put them in the mailbox and tell her to stop by anytime and get them.

[bhappy2]

Make copies, do not give her originals. Copies will work if its for insurance.

[mtb1981]

I just told her to go to the courthouse and get copies because she is going to be in the same town as the courthouse. She threw a fit and complained about it costing too much. They are 20 dollars each. Then she went on a cursing spree. Telling me that I am conniving and have it out for her. That she was going to bring a cop to the house to get in and search for the birth certificates. I told her to just stay away. That I had filed for D and had temporary possession of the house. The kids and.i left to go have lunch because we did not want to be around for her to come beat on the door...

[SteveLW]

I just told her to go to the courthouse and get copies because she is going to be in the same town as the courthouse. She threw a fit and complained about it costing too much. They are 20 dollars each. Then she went on a cursing spree. Telling me that I am conniving and have it out for her. That she was going to bring a cop to the house to get in and search for the birth certificates. I told her to just stay away. That I had filed for D and had temporary possession of the house. The kids and.i left to go have lunch because we did not want to be around for her to come beat on the door...

The cops have to be tired of her. Do they know she is an addict? Most cops have very little patience for addicts.

[mtb1981]

I am sure they are getting tired of her. One time when they were by the house, the cop made a comment that he got the impression she was looking for money to get drugs...

[mtb1981]

I will give her credit though. She is really good at pretending to be sweet and nice. So maybe they believe her. Who knows? Surely they have dealt with enough situations like this to be able to see things how they truly are...

[mtb1981]

I decided I liked Steves idea of putting them in the mailbox. So I did and sent her a text saying I put them there for her. She then texted back I am guessing you are not there? Followed by when did you file btw? I sent back no. Last week. Then she called. I answered. Her demeanor was completely the opposite of what it was a couple of hours ago. Very calm and nice. She thanked me for finding the birth certificates and did she would be by sometime to get them. Then she asked
If I took a girl home last week. Her friend saw me out at the bar last week and I was talking to someone and her friend told W that I took the girl home. I just laughed and said no. W went on to say she was just curious because she was told by several people that I took this girl home. She thought it was funny that I think she has been sleeping with someone else and she has not (yeah right) but I was taking random women home from the bar. She asked what I was doing and I told her I was at the park with the kids and ended the conversation.

[mtb1981]

Disappearing post. Thought I had checked it for apostrophes. Will try to update when I get home...

[mtb1981]

Just got home and the birth certificates are still in the mailbox several hours later. Funny how she needed them so badly that she was going to come right over with a police escort, and now that she can get them, they just sit there...