To say my sitch is bizzarre would be an understatement, yes everyone thinks their sitch is unique but this is just plain weird. Filed on Jan. 5th... and here we are 5 months later and nothing has been done except financial statement.

There are days she is friendly and days she just doesnt want to talk... the roller coaster... I know when to back off and when I can talk to her. I guess you could say I am standing for my M but am i really? She gives me nothing in terms of R, but also nothing in terms of D other than she filed.

I have not and will not talk about R with her I am way past that, but I am also coming to a point where I need an answer. I do not know how I should proceed as these are unchartered waters for me. I can say at this point I do not worry what will happen anymore, but I need something to happen.

Vets please help with this!!

Do I continue to wait?

Ask her whats going on?

Do I push the D forward? See if that sets a fire under her?

I have asked this before but if a S is so sure they want a D and push it forward and fast track, why the wait?

IC says that W is suffering from many problems and that she does not believe W is in an A. At this point does it even matter... NO


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20