hey Myrrh, just checking in on folks around here and saw your post....I'd say I have to agree with the others, if you've clarified what it was about/caused by, I'd drop it and let it go. It does give more weight to it if you keep bringing it up....remember, "what you focus on expands"
Sometimes I wonder if their (Hs') guilt over their A's causes them to fear that we'll do the same and project some of that onto us. I think it was a week ago that my H mentioned thinking I've been having an A!!!!!!!!?????????What the???????It really blew me away because the thought never even entered my mind. I assured him at the time I hadnt, debated what to do about it, let it drop, and havent heard another word....I think if I'd kept defending myself, it would have added fuel to his fire. just MO...
