You've gotten some really good advice here. I would tend to agree with a lot of it.
I would say if you HAVEN'T ALREADY clarified everything to him once then do it, if you have already clarified it, then no use in revisiting it, that only brings up more of those feelings you don't want to dwell on. TRUST HIM that he has eyes and ears and has heard what you have said once, no need in repeating it. That only looks like you are defending somthing, you don't have any reason to be defensive do you?
