Your divorce is taking forever! You have the right to be frustrated by her excuses, not to mention how expensive all these lawyer and mediator fees must be. It seems you've tried to give your wife everything she wants and you've cooperated and showed her a new side of yourself. There's also been ample time for your wife to change her mind and decide to reconcile but it sounds like she's disaffected by everything. It's great that you and she were able to go to lunch and a movie and enjoy your time together the other week but it does seem like all of that is shadowed by this endless divorce process. You've been fair to your wife and she should be fair in return. I'm not sure how the e-mail sounded to her but she's been your wife for so many years and you should be able to express your opinions especially given that you have nothing further to lose.
