Thanks folks.

Between reading your messages and a couple of threads that I find very helpful and inspirational

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=794106&page=7

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2778117&page=1

I found a sense of calm last night. It was good. My anxiety quieted. I am reading a book called "Self Esteem" and it has a lot of good exercises for confronting the cognitive distortions I create and for identifying and releasing the thoughts that tend to trap me.

Ste7e, Great to hear that you are enjoying the trip! I actually started planning out places I could rock climb on my trip last night and it was a lot of fun.

Nicole, I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

I appreciate everyone who has taken an interest in my sitch, and those who have provided moral support. I wouldnt be able to do this without all of you and I am grateful for your presence in my life.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019