My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance

[Vanilla]

Be careful of being set up for a fight. It is often a set up to get you out of the MBR and house.

If she starts, record even if it's not legal to use in court. If she hits you again find the bathroom and lock it.

You have raised the A she now knows you know. And she is likelying aware others suspect too. There is someone she doesn't want to know about it. And likely there was something in her head about the lake that was crucial for secrecy. An A thrives on secrecy and often withers in the light of truth.

She will also realise you know about the cash.

I would straightforwardly ask when she is putting it back as it's marital assets. This in an evidential way if possible.

V


What to say when she says she is sad?

I know but it's self inflicted don't you think.

Your conscience biting you?

I can hear/see that.

Have you had medical help for it?

That's tough.

Or in your own words.....

V