Originally Posted By: mtb1981
Misery loves company. She wants to know that you are unhappy so she call feel better. Do not give her the pleasure. And stop telling her you are sorry when she says she is sad...


Also, don't tell her
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you are welcome
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Surfer.




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Be ready for her to ask you for something. She might be buttering you up...


Temp check, buttering up and potentially sweet/salt (sweet/bitter cycle).

Reasons:

- Getting you to re-attach/temp checking (she wants a hold on you)
- She wants you to do something for her (she wants a hold on you/wants something)
- She wants to be nice so she can then be nasty (see The Drama Triangle)

Surfer.

Last edited by Cadet; 06/04/18 01:59 AM. Reason: Combine posts
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