Okay, folks - Got locked out of my thread sometimes yesterday or over the weekend, so I need to start a new one.
This one begins in an odd sort of limbo. H and I are staying in the same place, mostly getting along well, occasionally having some conflicts. Mostly until last night we were really happy and loving.
Then came last night. I was asleep when we got home, and he woke me in an kind of way, and I had been dreaming. Ladies and gentleman, I SAID SOMEONE ELSE'S NAME. He almost got up and left right then and there, but he ended up staying. We did sleep together, and all that, but I think I just sealed the death warrant of our marriage because I was half asleep and dreaming. (NOT about anything scandalous - a friend of his was an Airport TSA agent in my dream, and it was his name I said). It hurt my H deeply.
He and I are supposed to go to the movies tonight - do I try to talk about this again? Do I just not mention it? I told him today that S and I will be leaving for my apt and will be there Thurs, Fri, and Sat nights, but we'll come back to the house on Sunday to be with him. We have tonight without our S - he's going to my mom's house.
What is the best way to let a man get over something hurtful like this? I am terrified that it could be a deal-breaker. Everyone was grouchy and upset when we woke up this morning, and I am pretty scared about how much damage I may have done.
Input and advice, as always, are welcome. Hugs to all, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.