Hi JS, reading your sitch it seems to me like your W is really unsure about the D, she says things and doesnt follow through. Your DBing might be having a huge impact on her although it may not seem so to you. In my case H has set up mediation and keeps following up on things with great urgency, still very set on finishing up the D ASAP. So i would say there is still hope for you. Why did you decide on mediation versus her filing? Is it only for financial reasons? Mediation will get the D finalized much sooner than you contesting it, is the timeline not something you are particular about?
