O, I forgot to mention there has been no sign of contacting OM or anyone else (unless she has suddenly become very, very sneaky and it is only in the middle of the night).
The biggest giveaways is how they handle the phone. Secretive? Screen lock? Nervous around it? Under the pillow at night? Things like that, plus her attitude and how she speaks will tell the tale.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.