O, I forgot to mention there has been no sign of contacting OM or anyone else (unless she has suddenly become very, very sneaky and it is only in the middle of the night).

M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018