Is there hope?

[peacetoday]

IDK what to say about the OM

We definitely cant stop them- but some of the guys here may advise better on a response to that because we certainly don't want to let them think it is ok
but Im not sure

I know my xh lied about his affair until the end when, I finally snooped and found out
He M her anyway- now he is D
Nothing I did was helpful either way
I kept my head in the sand and that gave him a wealth of time to figure out he wanted her and Filed-

ask some of the guys-
and remember try to focus on you
create some new and fun activites get some support-