you sound even less healthy now than you did when you first started this thread
How so? It seems to me that I am still dealing with the same issues, but that I have instituted some 180s and I see that as healthy steps forward. For me it seems monumental to take these positions although no one here has said too much about it. I know my H is controlling and manipulative but I don't have to let him do it. This is a huge change for me. Help me walk this journey the best way I can. And if I get to the point where I leave, then you can say I told ya so.
M: 43, H: 44 Married 18 yrs, Together 26 yrs S17, D15, D8, S6 Still living in MH
