Yes, I am finding it hard to detach as we still live in the same house together. I don't want to leave my kids. Plus the mortgage on the house is very high and both our incomes cover it.
Everytime she wants to go out (meet the OM). She texts me to ask if its ok. Is she taking the mickey. Then while shes leaving, she says bye to me.
Do i just let her go to the OM. If i tried to stop her, would it not push her more towards him?