Another post about telling her parents. Why are you so obsessed with telling her parents. You have gotten an abundance of advice why that won't be a good idea, but you keep revisiting the idea.
So something is telling me that you think a message like that to her parents will change your switch. It will change your switch and not in the direction you want.
Work on working on you. Stop trying to control your M, R and sitch. It's hard we all know. It will take time, you cant rush this process. It will take hard Work and discipline.
Your worth is just as valuable as your W worth and once your start living and treating yourself that way, your W will have to do the same.
I guess I'm obsessed with b/c she asked me not to tell them. I think I posted earlier that but I'm not sure.
The worst part about posting that is that it derails my thread. I really don't mean to aggravate, but sometimes I gotta "vent" or get some garbage out of my head. Sorry you guys.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
