V, I am not sure I disagree with anything you just said. Nor do I think it necessarily contradicts what I posted above. I too believe cheating is completely abhorrent. And I am against lying and denying the truth. But that doesn't mean the LBS has to go shouting from the rooftops about the cheating spouse either. Obviously they can, that is within their rights, but it severely limits their chances of reconciliation. And while you and I might think "why would they want to reconcile with a cheater?!", that too is within the rights of the LBS to decide.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
