Ballast, society is reaching a point more and more where everything is about instant gratification and the easy way out. And the further and further the scale tips to that side, the more people without integrity there will be in the world. Just be happy that you're still one of the good ones with integrity, even though she has decided not to be. Don't get me wrong, I still have the same thoughts about my W, and she's a real piece of work right now. But I do sleep easier at night knowing I did the right thing and there's nothing I can do to stop her from doing the wrong thing...

Keep your head up and ejoy your time with your D. Take her out and do something you never thought you'd do with her. Make some memories. I'm thinking about going to get my nails done with my D9. She's stuck living with me and her brothers with no female influence. I struggle with finding "girly" things to do with her because I'm completely ignorant when it comes to that stuff. But I do know she would love it if I went and got a mani/pedi with her, and it's something she'll probably always remember. Go watch some princess movies with her tonight and make heart shaped pancakes for breakfast. Let your W drink too much and wake up alone with a headache...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...