By the way, knowing how property would be divided has helped me detach and feel strong about what is actual possible. Anything you have as a married couple, including money from her parents or a yellow washcloth she likes, it's all community property and would have to be split. I don't believe in divorce but looking at what the law requires helped me to be clear when my H said crazy things like what your W is saying.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
