It is all her concern for herself. Every bit of it is about her!
Ok. I need to do what works, but what do I do or say about these things she is saying? Validate feelings, stand ground on affair being solely her choice and wrong?
Let her talk, listen, dont say much. Dont dig yourself deeper, dont let yourself be taken advantage of.
Are you truly following ALL of Sandi's rules?
Print them out or type them into a post, and rate yourself on how well you are doing with each one. Those 37 rules are gold. Follow them.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
