I told her that her affair is wrong today, she asked me if I thought it was wrong yesterday and I didn't respond but she commented on my facial reaction, which said what I thought. She said she wouldn't call it that bc I controlled her into doing it by being a bad H.
Call it what, an affair? DO NOT let her lay the blame for HER affair on you. That is projection at its finest. This is a good indicator she knows full well it isnt your fault and shes trying to dodge that guild by convincing herself its your fault. My WW did the same thing, and still does, and she is in a full blow R with OM.
Dont buy that crap. Good on you for standing up for yourself.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
