If my wife made such a offer, I would certaily say yes, even though I prefer attentive, focused touching. Hey, then I could tell you how I liked it ;->
At any rate, go ahead and offer a quickie some time and see how it goes for each of you. You don't have to solve the entire sexual side of your marriage all at once, and a quickie will certainly get his attention. If it goes well, try it again.
I do notice that when my wife and I have tried to have sex, I have to somehow manage to not turn her off for the entire 45 minutes or so leading up to it, and there are so many things that can turn her off that this is not easy. A quickie may be a lot less sensitive to all the things that might go wrong when you're trying to have optimal sex.
