I have been re-reading other threads, and I saw that a number of people put together personal goals. I thought that might be helpful for me. I would love to get feedback.
My goals
1) Detach emotionally. Get a life. Think about myself not her. a) Go on trip. Get out of town. b) Spend time with family and friends.
2) Improve myself a) Mindfullness - Practice yoga at least 4 days a week. Meditate 15 minutes a day, use app in car. b) Self compassion - read self esteem book, work on exercises c) CBT - complete worksheets, keep reading.
3) Physical - maintain weight between 145-155 a) Ride 100 miles per week on trip. b) Practice Yoga c) 100 pushups a day d) Find rock-climbing gyms on the way - climb once a week.
4) Improve my italian - listen to 2 episodes of News in Slow Italian each day of trip.
Any thoughts?
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019