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Originally Posted By: Steve85

What is the story on the birth certificates? What her end game on that?


I think she's going to apply for public housing and needs them for proof that she has kids. She's pribably gonna pull the "I'm a single mom taking care of my 3 kids" card again. Try to get rent as low as possible...


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I also find it funny that she never showed up to the kids' ballgames last night. Hasn't been to a single one for either of them yet and the season is almost half over. But anytime I don't respond to her vague texts, she always says something about trying to get ahold of me so she can see the kids and never does. Not sure if she's trying to make me feel bad or trying to convince herself that she actually wants to see the kids. Either way, I can see right through it. If she wanted to see them, all she has to do is set up a time. But that cuts into her social life Can't plan on seeing the kids at 7:00 tomorrow, because what if something better comes up? Instead, she waits around until she's bored and pretends to want to see them, then rarely shows up anyway...


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Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
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mtb,

I've got your back. Here's what you do: Tell you wife that you and the kids are having an end of season celebration at a posh and expensive restaurant and let her know she's invited and you'll be paying. Of course, you and the kids never show up.

Cool huh?

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Doodler... you sir, are a savage. I like it. But I will not do that. It will just give her something to use against me. And I do not want to give her the pleasure. I will however probably have a huge cookout at the end of the season and invite everyone we know except her. And be sure to have all of her favorite stuff at the cookout. I am sure everyone there will post lots of pictures to social media showing how much fun we all are having...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
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Getting out of town tomorrow night for a little GAL. My parents are gonna watch the kids and I'm gonna go to a concert with a friend. A much needed break...


Me: 38
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Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
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BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
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D final: Sep 2019

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D9 is having a hard time tonight. She really misses her mom and does not understand why she never comes around. I just told her mommy wants some time to herself right now to figure out what she wants. She asked what that meant and I told her she did not know if she wanted to be married to me and is trying to figure that out. D9 asks why, and the best answer I could come up with was I dont know. This little girl is breaking my heart. I gave her an ice cream cone and lots of hugs, and she seems to be doing better...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
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D final: Sep 2019

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Good for you mtb! Have a good time.


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mtb my heart breaks for you. My S was in tears earlier this week saying he felt broken like there was a huge hole in his heart and all the good was being drained away. I just hugged him and said let it all out. If I could take his pain away I would - in a heart beat. I know you probably feel this way too. Stay well!


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Thanks for all the support, guys. I had a blast last night. just got done cleaning the house up a little and waiting for the Parents to drop the kids off. It's a beautiful day today and I plan on making the best of it...


Me: 38
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Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
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D final: Sep 2019

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Well handled with D9, age appropriate conversation.

Great dad stuff.

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