She said "I am not open to it at this time. I have too much going on between now and when school starts. But maybe when it slows down, maybe."
At least that's not a "no".
Same as a "no" in her language.
I agree with Helena about the psychologist appointment Mon. You make a point to be there, and let the doc know that you're there. Do not let her roughshod this! It doesn't matter what she wants. It matters that they recommended you both be there. If you don't go, it will likely show up on some child services report or custody claim later that dad was not concerned enough to go see what the doctor had to say about his child.
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What I'm wondering is this...is it possible that as a WW she is just "taking a break" but doing it the hard (for me) way? Does it sound like she's maaaaaybe considering trying to R at some point?
I don't think you've listened to a thing I have told you since the day you joined the board. But I am going to try once more. Let me make this plain.........no! No, she's not taking a freakin break! No, she's not considering trying to R at some point! Wake up, already!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
