Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Jlh]

OHHH ok, that makes total sense! So just treat him like a friendly neighbor but nothing more.

Its just hard when I'm afraid that pulling away will make him feel that I am done too when that is hardly the case. I think that is whats holding me back from detaching. His last word remarks always keep me holding on when I need to just brush them off. Thank you so much for the explanation!