Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Jlh]

Regarding detaching, am I just thinking too hard about it? I feel like i need to be out of sight at all times form him to detach but basically it's just being cordial yet mysterious?

Yesterday when I gave him my list of boundaries he looked surprised and taken back a bit and was rather quiet after we went over them together. I had left the room to go take out the trash and clean the kitchen while he sat with our son but he was quieter than usual when he comes over.

Then today he texts me asking for a revision to the boundaries which I agreed on and then said that he wanted to set a time to come get more of his things. He always drops more info like that at the end of conversations, it's like his last word to say these things before he hangs up and I'm tired of it. I just acknowledge them politely and then say my goodbyes, but then after that nothing comes of his remarks, he still has yet to move everything out of the house and when he does he asks me. Its HIS stuff he's moving out yet he asks me, it's just odd.